Amen to that ! Took me a wile to figure that one out ! ♥

YOOOO!!!! Yes Dvorah Ji!! m doing goooodddd !!!!! U Rock ON MY Dear!!!!!!!! JAI GURUDEV!

cool…..

I was just thinking about this tonight, Dvorahji. I think you finally have to get so incredibly sick of obsessing over ‘true love’ that you have to really not care anymore. And then the universe’s trick will be to bring him (or her.) That’s very often what happens but you have to even let go of that. And just shut up. ;O)

It’s funny what the mind does, isn’t It? First you try & make love happen by making lists, praying, hoping, using the law of attraction and if that doesn’t happen, then you “don’t care anymore” in hopes that will do the trick, because you’ve “let go”. And then sometimes you find someone “out of the blue” when you weren’t looking and again, you think that’s the reason you found your “true love” for a month, a year, and rarely a lifetime.

All these concepts on how to get things to happen for you. Honestly it’s so heartbreaking to keep watching seekers trying to manipulate their life to get what they want and then once they get it, they want something else and on and on and on…It’s one mind trip after another with an occasional hit for awhile.

I know it appears as if there is a rhyme or reason for what happens to you…BUT FORGET IT! IT HAPPENS WHEN IT HAPPENS, AND most of the time it doesn’t happen the way you want it to, and if it does, there always a little twist. But the good news is you still keep hoping that this time it’s going to be a “forever” happiness.

How can there be a forever when everything is ALWAYS CHANGING? How is it possible? You find your true love and in one year they’re completely different? And in five years you’re both completely different people. Sometimes you hang in there and sometimes you don’t.

Don’t worry so much about all this stuff…Live your life and have as much fun as you can in & out of relationships…

De-light-full

i just told this to my friend today!!!wow…i came home and i saw this…aho guru!!

I tried to find my soul, Dvorahji! In the bargain, I lost the desire for a mate!

MAN!!!!!! Dvorah ji!!!! YOU JUST SPOKE IT ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL !!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVE YOUUUUUUUUU MY DEAREST MOTHER/SISTER/BEST FRIEND!!!! WOOOOOWWWWWWW! I feel great!!! 🙂

Dvorahji,

Excellent. Just wish I had read this before spending two weeks with what I honestly believed was true love. Hey, it was just two weeks. Could have been two years…

Jeff

Think about Jeff, wasn’t it wonderful while it was wonderful? Wasn’t it delirious & loving to feel that you finally found your “soulmate” for life? So for awhile it was bliss. The problem always comes in that people want the bliss, but don’t want the suffering. Unfortunately, you can’t have one without the other.

In life when you have a lot of happiness/bliss it comes with an automatic “opposite” ticket. If you go up, you come down…That’s the REAL LAW OF ATTRACTION. UP IS ATTRACTED TO DOWN.

Jeff you had a great time, a great adventure and you’re going to have many more…enjoy them all with their ups & downs, otherwise life get so boring. all this hoping, praying, wanting, getting, losing, crying…what a drama, and feeling it all is really very exciting, isn’t it? Much Better then feeling nothing? 

The trick is always to move on and give all those “associations/feelings” a chance to move out of your system & psyche. People tend to think they have deep vasana – but really that’s ridiculous. THERE IS NO DEEP ANYTHING!!!! IT’S ALL RIGHT HERE. IT’S JUST THAT SIMPLE…let them come & then let them goooooooo. Just be a little patient. A little breathing, a little kriya, a little meditation and you’re as clear as new.