ANGEL: 

I have been going up and down mostly because of my feverishness and desires to have a love relationship. My love has not been reciprocated and I must admit it has been a blow to my ego. What’s wrong with me? I know it is what it is, so why can’t I just relax with this? I don’t want to love like this….Help.

DVORAHJI:

I actually have a very simple NEW MANTRA for you:

WHAT IS YOURS, WILL ALWAYS BE YOURS.

WHAT IS NOT YOURS, WILL NEVER BE YOURS.

Finding your true love, really doesn’t have anything to do with you. Some things/people just aren’t yours, and some are. And then some are yours for awhile and then…..off they go or you go. You’ve got to realize that finding love isn’t any different then finding a job or special pair of shoes. Sometimes you luck out and sometimes you just don’t (for a million different reasons that you will never figure out!)

I remember having a relationship that was just like all the rest – really quite stupid and meaningless. I loved him, he kinda loved me. I watched myself showing up where I knew he would be, just so I could hang out with him. And frankly it was getting very frustrating (especially since he was a gorgeous player).

I remember going home one day, parking in the garage, windows up and screaming in my mind: “Send me my love, my true love or F-leave me alone forever. Just send him and I mean NOW!”

I went into the house to meditate, and I started to do these breathing excercises naturally in my meditation. I didn’t even know what I was doing, but there it was, this sudden breathing. That weekend I took the Art of Breathing course and realized I had already been doing the Sudarshan Kriya naturally. I saw a video of Sri Sri and immediately realized my true love, the one I had desperately longed & asked for. (However it wasn’t what I had “thought” I wanted) 

Now that’s my love story, yours is different. But from then on I never doubted that what belongs to me in this life time DOES MANIFEST. And what doesn’t – belongs to someone else.

This is the knowledge to relax with…it’s very concrete. And this time if a potential love doesn’t reciprocate – know, he just does not belong to you, and it isn’t your fault because it has nothing to do with you. So NOW you can relax with full confidence and use your new mantra:

What is mine, will always be mine

What is NOT mine, will never be mine…Ok, now go have some fun!

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