Ask Dvorahji: I Still can't accept myself, HELP!

Dear Darling M:

Most people cannot accept themselves. They can’t accept their thoughts, their feelings, their decisions, their actions…they wish they could change them and they spend a lifetime, regretting what they’ve said and done and that relates outward into their relationships, into the world.

They can’t stand what happens in the world, and then they can’t stand God for making it happen. They hate him, they love him, they fear him, they adore him and on and on. It’s a life-long struggle with: gimme/gimme, blessme/blessme/saveme/sav

eme, loveme/loveme….BUT THERE IS NO PEACE, with themselves, with the world, with God.

They’re always struggling, manuevering, pleading with God to make life different then it is. Always wanting to control their bodies, minds, earthly or celetial worlds. Always wanting life to go “their way”, how they envision it. It’s great to have a cause, to make things better for yourself and others, so why not do your bit and recognize that life has a way of doing it’s own thing regardless of your desires and efforts. Many times it will go your way – but often it won’t.

I tell you it’s a waste of life to constantly fight with all your thoughts and emotions and desires and efforts. It’s time to relax and accept yourself exactly as you are and recognize that your struggles are a product of the mind, of Life itself. It’s time to say: Hey, this is my personality, this is my life, this is the world and I do the best I can, even if I think I don’t.

Look-if you’ve already come this far, to ask this question of a crazy Dvorahji on the internet, speaking some radical truth –then why not go completely WILD? WHY not just JUMP in and accept yourself exactly as you are and BE HAPPY? What have you got to lose, confusion, doubt, unahappiness, regret, guilt, misery? Go Ahead honey – Jump In!

Love you, Dvorahji

I’m gonna give you a smack if you don’t wake up & accept yourself soon!

Updated on Wednesday · Comment ·

Anna Novikov, Doris Shewchuk, Dawn R Oughton and 5 others like this.

Bobbie Segal

dvorah, say it girl!

Thu at 6:52am ·

Jerry Harvey

the first thing I ask new clients, patients or customers is: in what ways are you flawed? Not once has anyone said i’m without flaws. The flaws they come up with have never really been flaws at all. It’s always laughable and humorous for all concerned.

Thu at 8:00am ·

Dvorahji Dvorah Adler

Actually, all your flaws, problems, concerns even thoughts are there on the surface….If you go see a good a astrologist, numerologist, joytish – he tell you everything about yourself. He’ll even give you a clue into the movements of your life past & present & future and if he’s really really good, he’ll say this to you & maybe you’ll never goback for another reading:

“See! The past is gone, the present is happening, and the future is a thought in your mind. And everything you EVER, thought, felt or did HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! Why ? Because if an objective person like me can see it, then it’s just like a BOOK WRITTEN IN THE WIND. IT’S There for everyone to read! So how personal is THAT????? LIFE moves along and leaves a trace in the stars and numbers of LIVENESS ITSELF, and YOU are not any of it—HOWEVER, YOU ARE EVERYTHING. ALL this activity of “your” mind, body, world & beyond come from EVERYTHING – which is YOUR NATURE.”

Thu at 9:03am ·